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How to Bring Your Ancestors to Life with Your Family

06.10.2019 by season // Leave a Comment

Summertime is the perfect time to bring family history alive for your children.  Check out my first post on “Bringing Your Ancestors to Life” HERE. I want to walk you through my process to give you some ideas and to help you get started.

Step one:

Look up a particular ancestor on Family Search or in a family history book, journal, etc.  If you don’t have any stories of deceased ancestors, then ask your living parents (or grandparents) about their own lives.

Step two:

As you read about their life, just jot down little bits about them.  Did they have any particular hobbies?  What was their profession?  Did they like a particular food?  Were they from another country?  Did they have a certain skill set or talent?

Step three:

Take those pieces of information and brainstorm some ideas for how you could tangibly re-create those experiences for yourself and your children.  

I’ll give you an example from how I put this process into action a few months ago.  I read in a family history book that my great-great grandmother, Bothilda Pehrsdotter, became expert in carding wool, spinning yarn, and knitting (among other things) when she was a young girl.  

When I read this bit of information about her, I decided that it would be fun to learn those skills.  I bought some wool (straight off the sheep), some wool carders, and a drop spindle.  Over the next 6 weeks or so, we carded the wool, spun it into yarn, and then knitted (with the help of a loom) a hat for each of us.  

Before starting this process, we had no idea what we were doing… but with the help of youtube videos, we figured it out. 🙂  

Not only did we come away from this project with some new skills, but also with a deeper connection to Bothilda.

Is there something from one of your ancestor’s lives that you could use to create a tangible experience for your children?  It doesn’t have to take multiple weeks like this example I shared.  Any little thing that brings your ancestors to life for your children is a win and helps to link generations together.


SHELLY LOPEZ

IG: @goodmorningshelly


Categories // Activities, Child, Family, Teen Tags // ancestors, Family History, family search

Jane

05.31.2019 by season // Leave a Comment

Jane. Jane is a name that was at the top of our baby names list when I was pregnant with each of our last 3 children. But even though we loved the name, it never made the final cut because we like to name our kids after family members or close friends and we didn’t know anyone named Jane personally.

In September 2016, 3 months after the birth of my last child, I finally understood why that name kept standing out to me. Jane wanted me to find her.

After feeling impressed to finally dig in and learn how to research my family tree and find names to take to the Temple, I sat down with one of the Family History consultants in my ward. I’m one of those people who has a lot of their family tree already filled out so we had to go back pretty far. The first person that we found was Jane Elizabeth Clayton. She’s a distant cousin of mine.

Over the next couple weeks, I was able to find Jane’s husband, Alfred, and 11 of their 12 children. The day that my husband and I were able to be sealed for Jane and Alfred was such a special and spiritual experience.

I have felt particularly connected to Jane over the past few years. I have felt her angelic assistance, both since discovering her, and also I’ve been able to recognize her help with certain trials that I was going through, particularly during my last pregnancy.

I would love to someday discover a photo of her and some stories about her life. I look forward to meeting her on the other side of the veil someday.

If you are interested in sharing, visit seasonforfamily.com/share and submit your story. Let’s inspire each other ➳ #selfiewithanancestor #seasonforfamilystories


SHELLY LOPEZ

IG: @goodmorningshelly


Categories // Selfie with an Ancestor, Stories Tags // ancestors, angels, baby names, Family History, Temple, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints

Bringing your Ancestors to Life

05.24.2019 by season // Leave a Comment

As David Eagleman put it, “There are three deaths. The first is when the body ceases to function. The second is when the body is consigned to the grave. The third is that moment, sometime in the future, when your name is spoken for the last time.”

When we think about “doing” family history, we often think it involves digging through records, going to graveyards, and trying to find names and documentation. And while all of these things are definitely parts of family history, there is so much more.

Family History can be something as small as speaking one of your ancestor’s names – keeping them alive. This becomes even richer and rewarding when you connect those names with tangible experiences.  

I have found great power and joy in bringing my ancestors back to life – or keeping them from succumbing to the 3rd death. As I have learned about my ancestors’ lives and then created experiences for my children to connect with them, I have felt the immense joy and power of family history.  

I hope to be able to inspire and teach you to find family stories and revive them so that you and your children can connect with those who have come before and paved the way for you.

Summertime is a perfect time of year for this as children are out of school and there is more time to create experiences together.


If you’re curious, and want to go ahead and get started, you can check out the link in my Instagram account @goodmorningshelly to see how I have been implementing this idea of bringing my ancestors to life  (Pioneer Unit and Swedish Unit.) 

I would love to hear any ideas for how you could bring your ancestors to life.  Please feel free to share in the comments.


SHELLY LOPEZ

IG: @goodmorningshelly


Categories // Uncategorized Tags // acting, ancestors, connect, experiences, Family History, kids, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints

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